You do have an RCD protected supply (from the EHU post), don't you?
You have pressed the TEST button to make sure it operates correctly, haven't you?
If NO to either/both those questions then WHY NOT?!!!!!
They are essential checks before you even start to connect your blue plug to the MH.
If the hook-up point (not the one on the MH) is protected by a properly-operating RCD then that should trip as you get your shock, preventing any further danger.
The question of reversed polarisation (NOT polarity, there is no DC involved) should not even come into the equation if the RCD at the post is working correctly.
If there is no RCD then WHY NOT??
Yes, polarisation is more important in that situation.
Our Hymer has just about everything metal bonded to just about everything else that is metal, making shocks within the van very unlikely.
I assume that you are getting shocks when you are outside the van standing on wet grass and then touch the bodywork?